The 21th night of Ramadan is one of the blessed odd nights (Taq Raat). Many scholars and authentic Hadiths suggest that Laylat-ul-Qadr moves among these odd nights. Therefore, worship on this night in Ahmedabad should be performed with the hope and intention of catching the rewards of 1000 months.
اللَّهُمَّ إِنَّكَ عَفُوٌّ تُحِبُّ الْعَفْوَ فَاعْفُ عَنِّي
"O Allah, You are Forgiving and love forgiveness, so forgive me."
It is possible. Laylat-ul-Qadr can fall on any odd night of the last ten days.
Surah Al-Qadr (97) and Surah Al-Ikhlas (112) are highly recommended.
Yes, waking up for Tahajjud after sleep shows great dedication.
It involves reciting "SubhanAllahi walHamdulillahi..." 300 times in 4 Rakats.
Yes, women receive the same reward for worshipping at home.
Don't lose hope. Strive in the remaining odd nights of Ramadan.
Yes, good deeds on Laylat-ul-Qadr are multiplied by more than 30,000 times.